The 'Beast' From 23rd street!
Greetings, it is good to be with you again. This is somewhat of a difficult subject. Life allows one to function at normal levels most of the time. But beneath it all, there is a silent 'beast' lurking somewhere in one's subconscious mind. It is always active, always aware! One's daily attitude usually doesn't change, but periodically from the age of about 12 – 80, 'some' feeling from within, all but 'transforms' one into 'someone' else! A 'predator' of some innocent type. But most of us will not admit this guilt! What I'm talking about is one's 'innate' Human tendency towards, 'Animal Sexual Activity!' (A proclivity) We have tried to live our lives 'normally' as though nothing unusual bothers us generally. But occasionally, something does happen. Feelings that give one another a 'primary' objective! (Love included) And this feeling happens in both Men and Women! 'Unfortunately,' our jails are full of people that don't handle sex 'well?' Sexual abnormalities can happen even in the 'womb.' And sometimes (it is thought) this can produce a mental, 'Sexual Aggressiveness' later in life. (This is only a brief look)
90% of us proliferate normally, but about 10% of us (historically) do not, and noticeably do not survive well in our society. Needless to say, sexual 'Hormones' tend to remind us of an important time in our lives that (for some reason) remains with us throughout most of it. But how guilty are the recipients? I mean it's not like they don't have a legitimate reason for being aggressive. Let's briefly look at a few of our sexual hormones: 'Testosterone,' makes men more competitive. 'Oxytocin,' has various social and physiological functions. It is also called 'The Love Hormone!' (For obvious reasons) 'Estrogen,' is a myriad hormone with numerable responsibilities. The 'main' one is a craving for 'sex!' 'Progesterone,' regulates the female bodies frequency of ovulation and menstruation. And 'Vasopressin,' helps to regulate both male and female primary sexual motivations. But, The 'Beast,' lies in wait!
I'm a scientist, and I have trouble at times with some common popular belief systems. When I look at the brains Tegmentum, (within the brainstem) The Amygdala, and The Hippocampus Systems, I see some sexual controls that are not being used to a normal extent. Devious use of hormones in experiments as if one's endocrine system was that of a fish (not human) or frog using a form of unspecified 'prolactin,' used in the wrong stages! Much experimentation is going on. 'Estrogen, for skeletal formation, Gonadal hormones for brain development, special hormones for Neuronal Excitability, and sexual hormones and receptors for reactivity.
Without delving further into the 'actual' hormonal science, it has become clear that there is some confusion as to who is concerned here: "Ted Roberts and Alice Winslow," (anonymous) worked as attorneys in a prominent Law firm. Alice had worked there for five years, while Ted is a new attorney that had just started. 'Cheryl Maddox'(anonymous) is a 'new girl' that just started to work at the firm. Sadly, Ted 'took' to Alice right away.
Like many, she reminded him of his mother. "Her hair, her beautiful eye's!" But Ted had a problem. He had always been sexually rather small. (With what he thought was an underdeveloped penis) But Ted courted her anyway. And when the time 'came' for him to perform, "she laughed at him!" Terribly ashamed, he fled the scene. And he never went back to Alice. Instead, he replaced her with Cheryl, an understanding woman (that fell in love with him) and who had the ability to 'experiment' sexually! (But what was the problem with Ted?)
"When Ted was an unborn fetus, masculinization of the male fetus depends not only on the Testes, but other tissues as well. Especially the 'Mother's' Placenta. Examinations have shown disorders of Placental insufficiency can lead to "Hypospadias" and other abnormalities of growth of the extended (outward) male genitalia. And 'other' unnatural occurrences may begin at this stage. Adjustments for these conditions 'can' be made! But be careful, 'The 'Beast' (our subject,) 'could' psychologically start to awaken!" (But abnormalities aside; 'some' Men (and Women) 'seem' to have an 'Evil Implication Emerge' during their … 'Orgiastic Behavior!')
These and other problems can arise, and many are often present. But most predicaments are psychologically caused. When dealing with a person that appears to have demonstrated psychological sexual problems. First try and relax the person by making simple non-threatening private advances. If that doesn't work, you might suggest seeing a health-care professional for medical suggestions. But do not show aggression or anger! Anger (in the past) may be part of the current problem. And the Placenta problem is not uncommon in many females.
One of the problems (as a professional) I have with some attitudes is the total lack of recognition of the 'real' physiological problem: 'One, that both parties (at this time) are operating on a logical, natural, physiological necessity!' The regular physical, hormonal, procreative desire to reproduce our kind, that is 'innately' put in the reproductive cycle of all human beings! Our 'Hypothalamic' functions, the "two-egg" system controls our nervous, and Endocrine systems through the action of the 'Pituitary gland.' This leaves feelings of 'isolation' when we don't feel a loved type emotion! How we deal with that reality, is another matter altogether! Some have not learned, to 'openly' admit what it is we are trying to initiate!
Everyone alive today, cannot safely process this information successfully. A few are rather 'drastic' in their approach to this natural 'feeling!' In some cases, we read about them in daily newspapers! Where some individual rejects ordinarily active response to their natural actions, then subsequent primary defense mechanism begins to occur! And all of a sudden, (with trouble coming) 'nobody' is guilty of touching or caressing anyone, or anything!(And 'The Beast' tends to quietly 'hide,' in this situation!) And everything appears to be 'just fine!'
Perhaps some men take their manners a bit too seriously. Physiologically, our pathological endocrine cell structure does not behave within today's written mannerisms. Our 'DNA' structure is designed by nature to 'fit-in' with all kinds of activity that today's morality might call gross! The male ejaculatory system consists of 'Testes, Prostate Gland, Corpora Cavernosa, Seminal Urethra, (Meatus) then to the ''Spinal Cord!" And 'WOW!' What an orgasmic feeling! Our society handles promiscuous behavior with a 'lock and key' mentality! Because 'pleasure corrupts' people! Sexual parameters continue to be 'cloaked' in a type of secrecy. Human sexual activity is natural. But Man's procreative nature is still far more 'primitive,' than many scientists will admit!
These (and other) ramifications of this type have caused a limitless (can of worms) problem in the area of "sexual freedoms," results and resolutions! More people are now straying into previously 'limited' or different sexual arenas! "But where are our 'heterosexual' freedoms? In a world full of PhD and Medical advice, we seem to be stuck in a realm of sexual questions, rather than mutually agreed upon answers? The rule is still 'Play it by ear!' But don't play it 'too' hard! Perhaps, "there may be a 'climactic Beast' (somewhere) we don't want to awaken?"
The rules and regulations have changed! Like always, any 'wonderful feeling' like sexual orgasm always tends be exploited! And many "accolades" and compliments have been given to this 'event.' But the search for the mesmerizing 'excruciating' orgasmic 'feeling' can never be replaced or substituted for physically! The absolute sensation of ecstasy is unobtainable, 'in any other way!' Many lies and false witness are erroneously 'made-up' seeking sexual approval for all kinds of 'weird' and strange activities, that tend to 'come out' during coitus! The sexual mating procedure is a natural, but 'prehistoric' ritual! Always treat it with kindness and respect.
"Instructions for All!"
Be careful to stay within 'all' the recently prescribed and 'restrictive' laws! Now, one can relax, and perhaps have a cool 'libation,' while trying to 'fully' comfort and enjoy your time alone with each other! But 'knowing' all the while, what you are after, is the single most 'devastatingly, attractive, emotional, 'feeling' the world has 'ever' physiologically produced in a human being!' 'The Orgasm!' (And 'both' of you are entitled to it!) But don't forget, to "Leave 'The Beast' From 23rd Street" at home! (Or wherever he/she/or it came from!) 'Forever!' You see, this isn't 23rd street, and 'it' doesn't belong here! One may be able to raise the 'devil' somewhere else, …but, ...
Not 'here!' Not in a world of fineness, practicality, and prudent morality! Be nice, and always try to give her/him a 'loving' experience, 'both' of you can remember, now and … 'forever!' Stay well.
"Love is an irresistible desire, to be irresistibly desired" – Robert Frost
All the Best,
Henri W. Tartt,
Supervising Chemist &
Chief of Microbiology (Retired)
City of Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
Email:henri@henriwtartt.com
Website:*Tartt's Scientific Approach*